{"id":246313,"date":"2019-01-07T14:00:19","date_gmt":"2019-01-07T14:00:19","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/whimsicalwonderlandweddings.com\/?p=246313"},"modified":"2026-01-22T17:43:53","modified_gmt":"2026-01-22T17:43:53","slug":"questions-ask-booking-live-wedding-band","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/wedissimo.com\/blog\/questions-ask-booking-live-wedding-band\/","title":{"rendered":"8 Questions to Ask Before Booking a Live Wedding Band"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"https:\/\/wedissimo.com\/wedding-bands\/make-it-jazz\/\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-400729 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2019\/01\/hbjhbjhbj-copy-1200x800-1.webp\" alt=\"\" width=\"1200\" height=\"800\" srcset=\"https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2019\/01\/hbjhbjhbj-copy-1200x800-1.webp 1200w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2019\/01\/hbjhbjhbj-copy-1200x800-1-300x200.webp 300w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2019\/01\/hbjhbjhbj-copy-1200x800-1-720x480.webp 720w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2019\/01\/hbjhbjhbj-copy-1200x800-1-150x100.webp 150w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2019\/01\/hbjhbjhbj-copy-1200x800-1-768x512.webp 768w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2019\/01\/hbjhbjhbj-copy-1200x800-1-604x403.webp 604w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2019\/01\/hbjhbjhbj-copy-1200x800-1-60x40.webp 60w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2019\/01\/hbjhbjhbj-copy-1200x800-1-1000x667.webp 1000w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2019\/01\/hbjhbjhbj-copy-1200x800-1-467x312.webp 467w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1200px) 100vw, 1200px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>You\u2019re here. You\u2019ve made it. You survived the stressful planning. Overcame your nerves walking down\/waiting at the end of the aisle. No one messed up the photos. The parental and Best Man speeches have gone without a hitch, even if the embarrassment factor has climbed up a notch or two. You\u2019ve eaten, you\u2019ve drunk and now it\u2019s time to be merry. Cue the <a href=\"https:\/\/wedissimo.com\/wedding-bands\/\">live wedding band<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>But wait, what\u2019s this? This, this, this\u2026 <i>noise<\/i> is not what you booked. The lacklustre mumbling into the mic sounds like it belongs at a high school Christmas concert when the understudy has been dragged in. These aren\u2019t the songs on your playlist, and the guy on keyboards doesn\u2019t sound like he\u2019s ever had any lessons\u2026 In anything. That\u2019s not what you want for your big day.<\/p>\n<p>Live wedding bands should be utterly professional and compellingly entertaining. They should play the songs that <i>you<\/i> love, and they should play them well. They shouldn\u2019t just get your guests dancing, but leave them buzzing, full of the adrenalin of a good time well spent. Honestly, a good band will mean your wedding will be talked about for years to come.&nbsp; So, how do you make sure that that\u2019s what you get? By asking questions.<\/p>\n<h2>What You Should Be Asking Your Live Wedding Band Before You Book<\/h2>\n<h3>1. Have you played at a wedding before?<\/h3>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/wedissimo.com\/wedding-bands\/glen-parker\/\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-400728 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2019\/01\/WhatsApp-Image-2025-11-27-at-14.14.35-copy-1200x800-1.webp\" alt=\"\" width=\"1200\" height=\"800\" srcset=\"https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2019\/01\/WhatsApp-Image-2025-11-27-at-14.14.35-copy-1200x800-1.webp 1200w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2019\/01\/WhatsApp-Image-2025-11-27-at-14.14.35-copy-1200x800-1-300x200.webp 300w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2019\/01\/WhatsApp-Image-2025-11-27-at-14.14.35-copy-1200x800-1-720x480.webp 720w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2019\/01\/WhatsApp-Image-2025-11-27-at-14.14.35-copy-1200x800-1-150x100.webp 150w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2019\/01\/WhatsApp-Image-2025-11-27-at-14.14.35-copy-1200x800-1-768x512.webp 768w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2019\/01\/WhatsApp-Image-2025-11-27-at-14.14.35-copy-1200x800-1-604x403.webp 604w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2019\/01\/WhatsApp-Image-2025-11-27-at-14.14.35-copy-1200x800-1-60x40.webp 60w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2019\/01\/WhatsApp-Image-2025-11-27-at-14.14.35-copy-1200x800-1-1000x667.webp 1000w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2019\/01\/WhatsApp-Image-2025-11-27-at-14.14.35-copy-1200x800-1-467x312.webp 467w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1200px) 100vw, 1200px\" \/><\/a><!--more--><\/p>\n<p>If so, how many times. Everyone has to start somewhere, but your wedding is not the place to do so. Although it\u2019s tempting to think that a gig is a gig, weddings have different requirements, be that set up time and space or complying with venue noise regulations. You need a band that is used to dealing with these things, knows what to expect, can accept them cheerfully \u2013 and, ideally, guide you through the hurdles.<\/p>\n<h3>2. Can we see you perform before we book?<\/h3>\n<p><iframe title=\"Velvet Snare: Promo\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/9gcL1nwz7dw?feature=oembed&#038;enablejsapi=1&#038;origin=https:\/\/wedissimo.com\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>This is super important because you want to know what you\u2019re going to get on the night. It may not always be possible for you to attend a live performance \u2013 if the band only play weddings you\u2019ll not want to gate-crash \u2013 but every live wedding band worth their salt will have performance videos to showcase.&nbsp; On wedissimo you can browse through incredible <a href=\"https:\/\/wedissimo.com\/wedding-bands\/\">live wedding bands<\/a>, and watch up to 8 videos from each.&nbsp; These should give you a good sense of whether it&#8217;s the right vibe for the party you want to have.<\/p>\n<h3>3. Do you have contingency plans?<\/h3>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/wedissimo.com\/wedding-bands\/velvet-snare\/\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-400733 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2019\/01\/IMG_2609-copy-646x800-1.webp\" alt=\"\" width=\"646\" height=\"800\" srcset=\"https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2019\/01\/IMG_2609-copy-646x800-1.webp 646w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2019\/01\/IMG_2609-copy-646x800-1-300x372.webp 300w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2019\/01\/IMG_2609-copy-646x800-1-150x186.webp 150w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2019\/01\/IMG_2609-copy-646x800-1-604x748.webp 604w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2019\/01\/IMG_2609-copy-646x800-1-60x74.webp 60w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 646px) 100vw, 646px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>If their vocalist gets tonsillitis, or their guitarist\u2019s partner goes into labour, is there someone else who can step in? Basically, you need to know that your night isn\u2019t going to be affected by anyone else\u2019s dramas.&nbsp; Fortunately, if you hire a wedding band through wedissimo we offer a &#8216;guarantee&#8217; which means that we will step in and find a replacement if tragedy hits.&nbsp; We can&#8217;t have you missing out on your wedding dreams!&nbsp; That said, the majority of bands which you can book on wedissimo already have their own contingency plans in place, so it is well worth discussing these in advance to take some of the stress away.<\/p>\n<h3>4. Do you know \u2018our song\u2019?<\/h3>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/wedissimo.com\/wedding-bands\/the-something-blue\/\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-400734 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2019\/01\/5-7-copy-1200x675-1.webp\" alt=\"\" width=\"1200\" height=\"675\" srcset=\"https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2019\/01\/5-7-copy-1200x675-1.webp 1200w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2019\/01\/5-7-copy-1200x675-1-300x169.webp 300w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2019\/01\/5-7-copy-1200x675-1-720x405.webp 720w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2019\/01\/5-7-copy-1200x675-1-150x84.webp 150w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2019\/01\/5-7-copy-1200x675-1-768x432.webp 768w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2019\/01\/5-7-copy-1200x675-1-604x340.webp 604w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2019\/01\/5-7-copy-1200x675-1-60x34.webp 60w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1200px) 100vw, 1200px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>If you have a song that is yours as a couple, and you\u2019ve been dreaming of stepping out for your first dance to it, then you need to be sure that your live wedding band knows it, is happy to play it, and can perform it well. It\u2019s perhaps an obvious consideration, but it\u2019s easily overlooked until money has exchanged hands \u2013 and then it\u2019s too late.&nbsp; You should be able to see from band&#8217;s listings on wedissimo whether they will learn a first song for you.&nbsp; Most professional wedding bands should have a really deep repertoire and are also happy to learn a new song just for you.<\/p>\n<h3>5. Can we choose our setlist?<\/h3>\n<p><iframe title=\"Make It JAZZ: La Vie En Rose\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/aSei9IwldbQ?feature=oembed&#038;enablejsapi=1&#038;origin=https:\/\/wedissimo.com\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>No band can play every song there\u2019s ever been, but they will all have a repertoire. That repertoire might just be enough to fill a standard two to three-hour wedding set. Or, it might be like &#8216;The Somebodys\u2019, which spans six decades and has enough variety for you to pick your favourites \u2013 or, at least, discard your not-so-so favourites.<\/p>\n<h3>6. Can you be flexible?<\/h3>\n<p><iframe title=\"The Something Blue: Everywhere\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/S2ua69PfZlY?feature=oembed&#038;enablejsapi=1&#038;origin=https:\/\/wedissimo.com\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>The thing with weddings is that although some go like clockwork, most don\u2019t. There\u2019s traffic, so the cars are late. The guests get lost between ceremony and reception. Speeches run over\u2026 And over. Parents and\/or best friends get emotional and need comforting in corners. Stuff happens. And this is fine \u2013 as long as your entertainment isn\u2019t about to walk off stage after just 20 minutes because you booked them \u2018til 10pm.<\/p>\n<h3>&nbsp;7. What do you need from the venue?<\/h3>\n<p><iframe title=\"Scottish Electric Ceilidh Band: Music in motion\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/NvFORkifgTU?feature=oembed&#038;enablejsapi=1&#038;origin=https:\/\/wedissimo.com\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>Venue requirements are usually only an issue if you\u2019re planning an outdoor reception \u2013 marquees aren\u2019t generally known for their power points. However, some bands do have fixed constraints, so check before you book.<\/p>\n<h3>8. Talk to the band.<\/h3>\n<p><iframe title=\"Glen Parker: Write Myself A Letter\" width=\"500\" height=\"281\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/0AhbQ9IdldE?feature=oembed&#038;enablejsapi=1&#038;origin=https:\/\/wedissimo.com\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>This isn\u2019t a question, but more of a guideline. And you\u2019ll achieve it if you work through these points. Your live wedding band is an integral \u2013 and memorable \u2013 part of your day. And you want them to be memorable for all the right reasons, so you need to know if they have what it takes. They should be personable. They should be able to <i>perform<\/i>, not just play or sing. Can they interact with their audience, or will they just be background noise? Their website might look great, but you\u2019ll never know the answer to any of these questions unless you actually speak to them.<\/p>\n<p>Your wedding is going to be amazing. You\u2019re going to have the best time. And you\u2019re going to cherish every memory. But when planning in our polite English way, it\u2019s hard to remember that <i>your <\/i>event is the <i>main<\/i> event. You\u2019ve every right to ask questions. You\u2019ve every right to nit-pick. Your live wedding band is there to provide you with a service. You\u2019re paying them to be their very best for your very best day. So, go in prepared, and choose the best live wedding band for your amazing day.<\/p>\n<h4>Further Reading<\/h4>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/wedissimo.com\/blog\/wedding-dj-questions\/\">Top 10 Most Important Questions To Ask Your Wedding DJ<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/wedissimo.com\/blog\/17-questions-to-ask-your-wedding-photographer\/\">17 Questions to Ask your Wedding Photographer List<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/wedissimo.com\/blog\/wedding-breakfast\/\">What Is A Wedding Breakfast? + Your Foodie Questions Answered<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You\u2019re here. You\u2019ve made it. You survived the stressful planning. Overcame your nerves walking down\/waiting at the end of the aisle. No one messed up the photos. The parental and Best Man speeches have gone without a hitch, even if the embarrassment factor has climbed up a notch or two. 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