{"id":305857,"date":"2021-11-16T07:00:31","date_gmt":"2021-11-16T07:00:31","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/whimsicalwonderlandweddings.com\/?p=305857"},"modified":"2023-09-04T11:58:57","modified_gmt":"2023-09-04T10:58:57","slug":"ponden-mill-wedding","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/wedissimo.com\/blog\/ponden-mill-wedding\/","title":{"rendered":"Romantic Passionate & Intimate Black Tie Wedding With Pampas Grass"},"content":{"rendered":"

A warm welcome to Ashley and Lyndsey who are sharing their romantic Ponden Mill<\/a> wedding in Yorkshire<\/a>, which was all kinds of glam. Think black tie dress code, pampass grass and big fat smiles all day long. Not to mention lots of dancefloor shenanigans!<\/p>\n

Ashley and Lyndsey wanted a casual party vibe to their day with all their nearest and dearest surrounding them. They certainly pulled it off as it looked as though everyone had such a blast. I really love the dried flower bouquet, the stylish outfits and that epic confetti throw too. Such fun<\/em>.<\/p>\n

Heather Butterworth Photography<\/a>, thank you so much for sharing these totally joyful images of a really wonderful celebration.<\/p>\n

\"Ponden\n\"Bride \"Confetti \"Dress \"Dress<\/p>\n

The Proposal<\/h3>\n

As keen travellers, Lyndsey and I had planned to go on a trip to Borneo, Malaysia<\/strong> for some exploring, adventuring and sightseeing. I decided I wanted to make this the destination of my proposal but wasn\u2019t quite sure how I would do it \u2013 but, first thing is first, the ring.<\/p>\n

I researched rings far and wide and while my knowledge of diamonds grew, so did my shortlist. I decided on a ring from Samara James in London<\/strong> so I booked an appointment and then proceeded to rule out rings that I thought wouldn\u2019t suit Lyndsey\u2019s hands, often looking at pictures of her on Facebook to remind myself of how dainty her hands were and how long her fingers were.<\/p>\n

When I got to Samara James they were fantastic in guiding me through the process allowing me to individualise the ring and choose the one<\/strong> that was so perfect, it brought a tear to my eye.<\/p>\n

Weeks later I popped around Lyndsey\u2019s parents to request permission from her dad to ask for her hand in marriage and they could not have been more made up.<\/p>\n

We left for Borneo and I thought that I would propose on top of Mount Kinabalu, as keen hikers I thought this was romantic, however when we got to the top, due to altitude sickness, exhaustion and lack of sleep I decided against the idea.<\/p>\n

As a bit of R&R we hiked down the mountain, on to a boat, and over to a tropical island and a five-star resort where I proposed on the balcony of our sea villa<\/strong> in private overlooking a sunset and the mountain we had just climbed.<\/p>\n

\"Groom \"Ponden \"Ponden<\/p>\n

The Vision<\/h3>\n

We both knew we wanted our wedding to be casual, relaxed, fun, personal<\/strong> and including only our nearest and dearest. We wanted a party, not a ceremony.<\/p>\n

Budget<\/h3>\n

\u00a310,000-\u00a315,000<\/p>\n

\"Ponden \"Ponden \"Ponden \"Ponden \"Ponden \"Ponden \"Ponden<\/p>\n

The Ceremony & Music<\/h3>\n

The ceremony was intimate and intense with James Bay\u2019s Wild Love<\/strong> playing just before we said our vows and as Lyndsey walked down the aisle.<\/p>\n

Your Photographer & Filmmaker<\/h3>\n

Heather Butterworth Photography did the photos and the video, they work as a couple and take incredible \u2018in action\u2019 photography which captures the moments<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

\"Ponden \"Ponden \"Ponden \"Ponden<\/p>\n

The Venue<\/h3>\n

Ponden Mill<\/strong> \u2013 A new venue that was hosting weddings inside an old cotton mill in the heart of the Yorkshire dales.<\/p>\n

Your Outfits<\/h3>\n

Ashley and the groom’s party were in dark blue tuxedos<\/strong> from Suitors, this is after watching Daniel Craig in a Bond film go to a ball in one and always wanting that for his wedding.<\/p>\n

Lyndsey got a slim fit, modest yet elegant dress from Wed2B<\/strong>.<\/p>\n

\"Ponden \"Ponden \"Ponden \"Barn<\/p>\n

The Styling & Decor<\/h3>\n

Mave Weddings and Events created a simple, organic, natural and elegant<\/strong> feel using creams and soft beige with pampas, candles and delicately placed vases.<\/p>\n

The flowers were dry flowers<\/strong> from Lily and Willow Florals, they were made up of glowing ambers, soft reds and white\/beige\/neutral pampas.<\/p>\n

\"Earthenware \"Barn \"Earthenware \"Ponden \"Ponden \"Ponden \"Ponden \"Ponden \"Ponden \"Ponden \"Ponden \"Ponden \"Ponden \"Ponden \"Ponden \"Ponden \"Ponden<\/p>\n

The Honeymoon<\/h3>\n

We decided to drive the North Coast 500<\/strong> in a 4×4 with a pop-up tent, cooking stove, fridge and all the utensils to keep us independent on the road exploring Scotland\u2019s finest for ten days.<\/p>\n

We travelled up the East and down the West stopping at all of the key areas to swim in the seas, climb the mountains and sleep under the stars.<\/p>\n

Memorable Moments<\/h3>\n
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  • Brian deciding to do pull-ups from the beam structure in the venue<\/li>\n
  • The incredible Sax Player<\/li>\n
  • Michael burning a hole in the floor with his non-stop dancing<\/li>\n
  • Ashley\u2019s dad crying during the Groom speech<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n

    Advice For Other Couples<\/h3>\n

    Try not to get married amidst a pandemic.<\/p>\n

    \"Ponden \"Ponden
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