{"id":318078,"date":"2022-05-27T08:00:44","date_gmt":"2022-05-27T07:00:44","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/whimsicalwonderlandweddings.com\/?p=318078"},"modified":"2024-05-09T13:30:49","modified_gmt":"2024-05-09T12:30:49","slug":"how-many-bridesmaids-choose","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/wedissimo.com\/blog\/how-many-bridesmaids-choose\/","title":{"rendered":"How Many Bridesmaids Should You Have? &#8211; The Real Answer"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Feeling confused or perhaps worried about <strong>how many bridesmaids<\/strong> you <em>should<\/em> choose to have for your wedding?<\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t fret, by the end of this article you&#8217;ll have the answer, plus with any luck, you&#8217;ll feel much happier and relaxed about your wedding party choice. <em>Hoorah<\/em>!<\/p>\n<h2>How Many Bridesmaids Should You Have?<\/h2>\n<p>Let&#8217;s get straight to it, there are no rules about how many bridesmaids\/bridesmen you should or shouldn&#8217;t have at your wedding. It all comes down to personal preference and the style of your day. Most couples have between<strong> 2-5 bridesmaids\/bridesmen<\/strong>, but some weddings have <strong>12 or more<\/strong>, averages really do vary.<\/p>\n<p>Always go with your gut, what feels right for you both and the number of bridesmaids\/bridesmen that fits with your budget. If you actually don&#8217;t want to have any bridesmaids\/bridesmen, that&#8217;s totally fine.<\/p>\n<p>I have featured weddings with a large wedding party and weddings with no wedding party. Guess what? All of these weddings were great, happy and filled with fantastic memories too!<\/p>\n<h2>How To Decide On The Number Of Bridesmaids<\/h2>\n<p>Now we&#8217;re going to dive into what things to consider if you are unsure about <strong>how many bridesmaids\/bridesmen<\/strong> to have. Thinking about all of these factors should help you to really nail down those final wedding party numbers.<\/p>\n<h3>1. Your Budget<\/h3>\n<p>First and foremost, I am all about sticking to a wedding budget. No one should <em>ever<\/em> feel that they have to get into debt or spend beyond their means to have an awesome wedding.<\/p>\n<p>It really isn&#8217;t necessary, I&#8217;ve featured many <a href=\"https:\/\/wedissimo.com\/blog\/category\/real-weddings\/budget-wedding\/\">budget weddings<\/a> over the years to prove it too!.<\/p>\n<p>So when thinking about the number of bridesmaids consider whether you are willing to cover these costs\/purchase these items:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/wedissimo.com\/blog\/bridesmaid-dresses-online-uk\/\">Bridesmaid dresses<\/a>\/bridesman outfits<\/li>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/wedissimo.com\/blog\/bridesmaid-gift-present-ideas-thank-you\/\">Bridesmaid gifts<\/a>\/bridesman gifts<\/li>\n<li>Hair\/make up<\/li>\n<li>Accessories<\/li>\n<li>Flowers<\/li>\n<li>Transport<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-318100\" src=\"https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/Bridesmaids-Bridesman-How-Choose-Many-Jules-Barron-Photography-33.jpg\" alt=\"Bridesmaids Bridesman How Choose Many Jules Barron Photography\" width=\"1000\" height=\"667\" srcset=\"https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/Bridesmaids-Bridesman-How-Choose-Many-Jules-Barron-Photography-33.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/Bridesmaids-Bridesman-How-Choose-Many-Jules-Barron-Photography-33-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/Bridesmaids-Bridesman-How-Choose-Many-Jules-Barron-Photography-33-720x480.jpg 720w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/Bridesmaids-Bridesman-How-Choose-Many-Jules-Barron-Photography-33-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/Bridesmaids-Bridesman-How-Choose-Many-Jules-Barron-Photography-33-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/Bridesmaids-Bridesman-How-Choose-Many-Jules-Barron-Photography-33-604x403.jpg 604w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/Bridesmaids-Bridesman-How-Choose-Many-Jules-Barron-Photography-33-60x40.jpg 60w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/Bridesmaids-Bridesman-How-Choose-Many-Jules-Barron-Photography-33-467x312.jpg 467w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/> Photo: <a href=\"https:\/\/julesbarron.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Jules Barron<\/a> via <a href=\"https:\/\/wedissimo.com\/blog\/mickleton-hills-farm-wedding\/\">Mickleton Hills Farm Wedding<\/a><\/p>\n<h3>\ud83d\udc49 Average Cost Of Each Bridesmaid\/Bridesman<\/h3>\n<p>The below figures are estimates of the costs of having each bridesmaid\/bridesman and you should get your own quotes\/do research to check they are accurate. Don&#8217;t forget about factoring alterations for outfits if need be.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s also worth noting that you don&#8217;t have to spend in all of these areas. There are ways to save and be savvy about the cost of your wedding party.<\/p>\n\n<table id=\"tablepress-8\" class=\"tablepress tablepress-id-8\">\n<thead>\n<tr class=\"row-1\">\n\t<th class=\"column-1\">Bridesmaid Item<\/th><th class=\"column-2\">Minimum Spend Each<\/th><th class=\"column-3\">Could Spend Each<\/th>\n<\/tr>\n<\/thead>\n<tbody class=\"row-striping row-hover\">\n<tr class=\"row-2\">\n\t<td class=\"column-1\">Outfit<\/td><td class=\"column-2\">\u00a330<\/td><td class=\"column-3\">\u00a3120+<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr class=\"row-3\">\n\t<td class=\"column-1\">Shoes<\/td><td class=\"column-2\">\u00a325<\/td><td class=\"column-3\">\u00a360+<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr class=\"row-4\">\n\t<td class=\"column-1\">Jewellery<\/td><td class=\"column-2\">\u00a315<\/td><td class=\"column-3\">\u00a3150+<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr class=\"row-5\">\n\t<td class=\"column-1\">Hair Accessory<\/td><td class=\"column-2\">\u00a320<\/td><td class=\"column-3\">\u00a340+<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr class=\"row-6\">\n\t<td class=\"column-1\">Hair Stylist<\/td><td class=\"column-2\">\u00a340<\/td><td class=\"column-3\">\u00a370+<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr class=\"row-7\">\n\t<td class=\"column-1\">Make Up Artist<\/td><td class=\"column-2\">\u00a340<\/td><td class=\"column-3\">\u00a3100+<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr class=\"row-8\">\n\t<td class=\"column-1\">Robe\/PJs<\/td><td class=\"column-2\">\u00a320<\/td><td class=\"column-3\">\u00a360+<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr class=\"row-9\">\n\t<td class=\"column-1\">Gift<\/td><td class=\"column-2\">\u00a320<\/td><td class=\"column-3\">\u00a360+<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr class=\"row-10\">\n\t<td class=\"column-1\">Bouquet<\/td><td class=\"column-2\">\u00a340<\/td><td class=\"column-3\">\u00a3100+<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<tfoot>\n<tr class=\"row-11\">\n\t<th class=\"column-1\">Total<\/th><th class=\"column-2\">\u00a3460<\/th><th class=\"column-3\">\u00a3760+<\/th>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tfoot>\n<\/table>\n<!-- #tablepress-8 from cache -->\n<p>\ud83d\udca1 Save money on bridesmaids by:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Asking bridesmaids\/bridesmen to wear something they already own in a certain colour<\/li>\n<li>Going DIY on hair\/makeup<\/li>\n<li>Keeping accessories minimal, head to the high street or ask bridesmaids to wear something they already own<\/li>\n<li>Doubling up gifts to use as accessories<\/li>\n<li>Finding cheap gifts or write a meaningful thank you card instead of giving a pressie<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-318104 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/How-Many-Bridesmaid-Choose-Firefly-and-Embers-Photography-3-720x1080.jpg\" alt=\"How Many Bridesmaid Choose Firefly and Embers Photography\" width=\"720\" height=\"1080\" srcset=\"https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/How-Many-Bridesmaid-Choose-Firefly-and-Embers-Photography-3-720x1080.jpg 720w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/How-Many-Bridesmaid-Choose-Firefly-and-Embers-Photography-3-300x450.jpg 300w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/How-Many-Bridesmaid-Choose-Firefly-and-Embers-Photography-3-150x225.jpg 150w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/How-Many-Bridesmaid-Choose-Firefly-and-Embers-Photography-3-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/How-Many-Bridesmaid-Choose-Firefly-and-Embers-Photography-3-604x906.jpg 604w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/How-Many-Bridesmaid-Choose-Firefly-and-Embers-Photography-3-60x90.jpg 60w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/How-Many-Bridesmaid-Choose-Firefly-and-Embers-Photography-3.jpg 1000w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 720px) 100vw, 720px\" \/> Photo: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.fireflyandembers.com\/\">Firefly and Embers Photography<\/a> via <a href=\"https:\/\/wedissimo.com\/blog\/elsick-house-wedding\/\">Elsick House Wedding<\/a><\/p>\n<h3>2. Wedding Party Photos<\/h3>\n<p>Iconic wedding images often include those lineup shots with your wedding party. So you may want to think about how they will look depending on the number of bridesmaids\/bridesmen you choose.<\/p>\n<p>Do you mind having an unsymmetrical lineup? Honestly, it doesn&#8217;t really matter, but you may want your photos to look even. That being said, don&#8217;t choose a bridesmaid just to make up numbers, that wouldn&#8217;t feel right for anyone.<\/p>\n<p>A skilled wedding photographer and wedding videographer will know exactly how to capture your bridesmaids\/bridesmen.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-318094 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/how-many-bridesmaids-choose-Laura-Williams-Photography-15-720x1079.jpg\" alt=\"how many bridesmaids choose Laura Williams Photography\" width=\"720\" height=\"1079\" srcset=\"https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/how-many-bridesmaids-choose-Laura-Williams-Photography-15-720x1079.jpg 720w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/how-many-bridesmaids-choose-Laura-Williams-Photography-15-300x449.jpg 300w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/how-many-bridesmaids-choose-Laura-Williams-Photography-15-150x225.jpg 150w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/how-many-bridesmaids-choose-Laura-Williams-Photography-15-768x1150.jpg 768w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/how-many-bridesmaids-choose-Laura-Williams-Photography-15-604x905.jpg 604w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/how-many-bridesmaids-choose-Laura-Williams-Photography-15-60x90.jpg 60w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/how-many-bridesmaids-choose-Laura-Williams-Photography-15.jpg 1000w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 720px) 100vw, 720px\" \/> Photo: <a href=\"https:\/\/laurawilliamsweddings.co.uk\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Laura Williams Weddings<\/a> via <a href=\"https:\/\/wedissimo.com\/blog\/autumn-wedding-colours\/\">Autumn Wedding Colours<\/a><\/p>\n<h3>3. Space Constraints<\/h3>\n<p>Do you have a plan for where you are getting ready in the morning? Are you hoping for your wedding party to be by your side?<\/p>\n<p>Then you&#8217;re going to need ample room for them to get ready. Complete with bathroom amenities, mirrors and storage.<\/p>\n<h3>4. Other&#8217;s Opinions<\/h3>\n<p>Perhaps you worry about what others may think about you having no bridesmaids or lots of bridesmaids? Well, that isn&#8217;t relevant, this is your day, you do you!<\/p>\n<p>We are in the 21st century and when it comes to weddings anything really does go now.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-318106\" src=\"https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/How-Many-Bridesmaids-Choose-Bloom-Weddings-43.jpg\" alt=\"How Many Bridesmaids Choose Bloom Weddings\" width=\"1000\" height=\"667\" srcset=\"https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/How-Many-Bridesmaids-Choose-Bloom-Weddings-43.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/How-Many-Bridesmaids-Choose-Bloom-Weddings-43-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/How-Many-Bridesmaids-Choose-Bloom-Weddings-43-720x480.jpg 720w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/How-Many-Bridesmaids-Choose-Bloom-Weddings-43-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/How-Many-Bridesmaids-Choose-Bloom-Weddings-43-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/How-Many-Bridesmaids-Choose-Bloom-Weddings-43-604x403.jpg 604w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/How-Many-Bridesmaids-Choose-Bloom-Weddings-43-60x40.jpg 60w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/How-Many-Bridesmaids-Choose-Bloom-Weddings-43-467x312.jpg 467w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/> Photo: <a href=\"https:\/\/bloomweddings.co.uk\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Bloom Weddings<\/a> via <a href=\"https:\/\/wedissimo.com\/blog\/granary-on-the-common-wedding\/\">Granary On The Common Wedding<\/a><\/p>\n<h3>5. Friend\/Family Dynamics<\/h3>\n<p>Let&#8217;s face facts, we are never going to please every single person in life and the same goes for your wedding.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s hard to navigate family and friend politics. If you are concerned about leaving someone out, be honest and tell them. They will appreciate that they were thought of and hopefully will understand your explanation.<\/p>\n<p>If you are really struggling and it&#8217;s too much, keep it simple. Have immediate family or one bridesmaid\/bridesman, or none if it&#8217;s too complicated. That&#8217;s absolutely fine!<\/p>\n<p>You can always give out other <a href=\"https:\/\/wedissimo.com\/blog\/wedding-party-roles\/\">wedding day roles<\/a> too to make those not part of your wedding party feel included and special.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-318107\" src=\"https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/How-Many-Bridesmaids-Choose-Alisa-Nicholle-Co-31.jpg\" alt=\"How Many Bridesmaids Choose Alisa Nicholle Co\" width=\"1000\" height=\"666\" srcset=\"https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/How-Many-Bridesmaids-Choose-Alisa-Nicholle-Co-31.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/How-Many-Bridesmaids-Choose-Alisa-Nicholle-Co-31-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/How-Many-Bridesmaids-Choose-Alisa-Nicholle-Co-31-720x480.jpg 720w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/How-Many-Bridesmaids-Choose-Alisa-Nicholle-Co-31-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/How-Many-Bridesmaids-Choose-Alisa-Nicholle-Co-31-768x511.jpg 768w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/How-Many-Bridesmaids-Choose-Alisa-Nicholle-Co-31-604x402.jpg 604w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/How-Many-Bridesmaids-Choose-Alisa-Nicholle-Co-31-60x40.jpg 60w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/How-Many-Bridesmaids-Choose-Alisa-Nicholle-Co-31-467x312.jpg 467w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/> Photo: <a href=\"https:\/\/alisanicholle.co\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Alisa Nicholle Co<\/a> via <a href=\"https:\/\/wedissimo.com\/blog\/modern-city-wedding-ideas\/\">Modern City Wedding Ideas<\/a><\/p>\n<h3>6. Pre-Wedding Parties<\/h3>\n<p>If you are planning a hen or stag do, will the number of bridesmaids you have affect these parties? Will there be too many bridesmaids helping out or not enough hands on deck?<\/p>\n<p>Does it really matter to you if your faves are officially bridesmaids\/bridesmen, or not? It&#8217;s a good idea to ask yourself these questions so you can envision how the logistics will work out.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-318109 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/How-Choose-Bridesmaids-Many-Jonny-Gouldstone-Photography-31-720x900.jpg\" alt=\"How Choose Bridesmaids Many Jonny Gouldstone Photography\" width=\"720\" height=\"900\" srcset=\"https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/How-Choose-Bridesmaids-Many-Jonny-Gouldstone-Photography-31-720x900.jpg 720w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/How-Choose-Bridesmaids-Many-Jonny-Gouldstone-Photography-31-300x375.jpg 300w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/How-Choose-Bridesmaids-Many-Jonny-Gouldstone-Photography-31-150x188.jpg 150w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/How-Choose-Bridesmaids-Many-Jonny-Gouldstone-Photography-31-768x960.jpg 768w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/How-Choose-Bridesmaids-Many-Jonny-Gouldstone-Photography-31-604x755.jpg 604w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/How-Choose-Bridesmaids-Many-Jonny-Gouldstone-Photography-31-60x75.jpg 60w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/How-Choose-Bridesmaids-Many-Jonny-Gouldstone-Photography-31.jpg 1000w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 720px) 100vw, 720px\" \/> Photo: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.jonnygouldstonephotography.com\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"> Jonny Gouldstone Photography<\/a> via <a href=\"https:\/\/wedissimo.com\/blog\/hertfordshire-farm-wedding\/\">Hertfordshire Farm Wedding<\/a><\/p>\n<h3>7. Aisle Walk<\/h3>\n<p>Do you imagine strutting down the aisle behind a large number of bridesmaids\/bridesmen, or following a small wedding party?<\/p>\n<p>You may need a longer song and more space to seat your maids. If you have a small wedding party, will the ceremony feel sparse to you?<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-318110\" src=\"https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/How-Many-Bridesmaids-Choose-Aurora-Grey-Photography-36.jpg\" alt=\"How Many Bridesmaids Choose Aurora Grey Photography\" width=\"1000\" height=\"667\" srcset=\"https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/How-Many-Bridesmaids-Choose-Aurora-Grey-Photography-36.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/How-Many-Bridesmaids-Choose-Aurora-Grey-Photography-36-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/How-Many-Bridesmaids-Choose-Aurora-Grey-Photography-36-720x480.jpg 720w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/How-Many-Bridesmaids-Choose-Aurora-Grey-Photography-36-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/How-Many-Bridesmaids-Choose-Aurora-Grey-Photography-36-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/How-Many-Bridesmaids-Choose-Aurora-Grey-Photography-36-604x403.jpg 604w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/How-Many-Bridesmaids-Choose-Aurora-Grey-Photography-36-60x40.jpg 60w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/How-Many-Bridesmaids-Choose-Aurora-Grey-Photography-36-467x312.jpg 467w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/> Photo: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.auroragrey.co.uk\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Aurora Grey Photography<\/a> via <a href=\"https:\/\/wedissimo.com\/blog\/norfolk-barn-wedding\/\">Norfolk Barn Wedding<\/a><\/p>\n<h3>8. Number Of Guests<\/h3>\n<p>The number of guests you&#8217;re inviting to your wedding doesn&#8217;t need to dictate the size of your wedding party. Go with your gut and chose your bridesmaids\/bridesmen depending on what your heart tells you, not the size of your wedding.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-318112\" src=\"https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/How-Many-Bridesmaids-Choose-Michelle-Huggleston-Photography-19.jpg\" alt=\"How Many Bridesmaids Choose Michelle Huggleston Photography\" width=\"1000\" height=\"667\" srcset=\"https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/How-Many-Bridesmaids-Choose-Michelle-Huggleston-Photography-19.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/How-Many-Bridesmaids-Choose-Michelle-Huggleston-Photography-19-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/How-Many-Bridesmaids-Choose-Michelle-Huggleston-Photography-19-720x480.jpg 720w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/How-Many-Bridesmaids-Choose-Michelle-Huggleston-Photography-19-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/How-Many-Bridesmaids-Choose-Michelle-Huggleston-Photography-19-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/How-Many-Bridesmaids-Choose-Michelle-Huggleston-Photography-19-604x403.jpg 604w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/How-Many-Bridesmaids-Choose-Michelle-Huggleston-Photography-19-60x40.jpg 60w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/How-Many-Bridesmaids-Choose-Michelle-Huggleston-Photography-19-467x312.jpg 467w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/> Photo: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.michellehuggleston.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Michelle Huggleston<\/a> via <a href=\"https:\/\/wedissimo.com\/blog\/celtic-manor-resort-wedding\/\">Celtic Manor Resort Wedding<\/a><\/p>\n<h2>Bridesmaid Choosing FAQ<\/h2>\n<h3>How do you pick bridesmaids?<\/h3>\n<p>Go with your heart. Think about friends\/family that mean the most to you and you have a real connection with.<\/p>\n<p>Do you have a strong relationship where you support one another and feel as though you&#8217;ll be close long-term? Are they able to be involved in the wedding and attend too? Ask yourself these questions and if they are yeses, that should help you to decide.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-318114 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/How-Many-Bridesmaids-Choose-Emma-Lawson-Photography62-720x1080.jpg\" alt=\"How Many Bridesmaids Choose Emma Lawson Photography\" width=\"720\" height=\"1080\" srcset=\"https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/How-Many-Bridesmaids-Choose-Emma-Lawson-Photography62-720x1080.jpg 720w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/How-Many-Bridesmaids-Choose-Emma-Lawson-Photography62-300x450.jpg 300w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/How-Many-Bridesmaids-Choose-Emma-Lawson-Photography62-150x225.jpg 150w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/How-Many-Bridesmaids-Choose-Emma-Lawson-Photography62-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/How-Many-Bridesmaids-Choose-Emma-Lawson-Photography62-604x906.jpg 604w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/How-Many-Bridesmaids-Choose-Emma-Lawson-Photography62-60x90.jpg 60w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/How-Many-Bridesmaids-Choose-Emma-Lawson-Photography62.jpg 1000w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 720px) 100vw, 720px\" \/> Photo: <a href=\"https:\/\/emmalawsonphotography.com\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"> Emma Lawson<\/a> via <a href=\"https:\/\/wedissimo.com\/blog\/fife-wedding\/\">Fife Wedding<\/a><\/p>\n<h3>I was a bridesmaid for a family member\/friend, should I ask them to be my bridesmaid?<\/h3>\n<p>This is a tricky one! It comes down to how you feel and your relationship with them whether you&#8217;d like them to be your bridesmaid.<\/p>\n<p>Don&#8217;t feel like you have to ask them to be your bridesmaid. If it isn&#8217;t right, don&#8217;t feel like it&#8217;s a prerequisite. But, it could hurt their feelings if they have this expectation.<\/p>\n<p>The best thing to do is to speak to them honestly and explain before they hear about your wedding party choice. Hopefully, they will get your reasoning and you can also give them a special role on the day to make them feel included too.<\/p>\n<h3><span data-v-727cbd26=\"\">How many bridesmaids are too many or too little?<br \/>\n<\/span><\/h3>\n<p>There is no such thing as too many or too few bridesmaids. It really is your choice and yours alone.<\/p>\n<p>Do what feels right and makes you both happy. You won&#8217;t want to look back and regret your choices based on what others may think.<\/p>\n<p>If you want 20 bridesmaids then go for it, if you don&#8217;t want any bridesmaids, you don&#8217;t have to. It really is that simple.<\/p>\n<p><span data-v-727cbd26=\"\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-318118\" src=\"https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/How-Many-Bridesmaids-Choose-Wedding-Sasha-Weddings-19.jpg\" alt=\"How Many Bridesmaids Choose Wedding Sasha Weddings\" width=\"1000\" height=\"666\" srcset=\"https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/How-Many-Bridesmaids-Choose-Wedding-Sasha-Weddings-19.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/How-Many-Bridesmaids-Choose-Wedding-Sasha-Weddings-19-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/How-Many-Bridesmaids-Choose-Wedding-Sasha-Weddings-19-720x480.jpg 720w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/How-Many-Bridesmaids-Choose-Wedding-Sasha-Weddings-19-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/How-Many-Bridesmaids-Choose-Wedding-Sasha-Weddings-19-768x511.jpg 768w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/How-Many-Bridesmaids-Choose-Wedding-Sasha-Weddings-19-604x402.jpg 604w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/How-Many-Bridesmaids-Choose-Wedding-Sasha-Weddings-19-60x40.jpg 60w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/How-Many-Bridesmaids-Choose-Wedding-Sasha-Weddings-19-467x312.jpg 467w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><\/span> Photo:<a href=\"https:\/\/sashaweddings.co.uk\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"> Sasha Weddings<\/a> via <a href=\"https:\/\/wedissimo.com\/blog\/riverside-buckinghamshire-wedding\/\">Riverside Buckinghamshire Wedding<\/a><\/p>\n<h3>Can you have a bridesman?<\/h3>\n<p>Yes, yes, yes! Gender should not dictate your wedding squad. If you want a bridesman then you go for it. More and more couples are now having bridesmen and groomswomen, which is awesome to see.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-318098\" src=\"https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/How-Choose-Bridesman-Bridesmaid-Many-Oxi-Photography.jpg\" alt=\"How Choose Bridesman Bridesmaid Many Oxi Photography\" width=\"750\" height=\"500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/How-Choose-Bridesman-Bridesmaid-Many-Oxi-Photography.jpg 750w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/How-Choose-Bridesman-Bridesmaid-Many-Oxi-Photography-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/How-Choose-Bridesman-Bridesmaid-Many-Oxi-Photography-720x480.jpg 720w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/How-Choose-Bridesman-Bridesmaid-Many-Oxi-Photography-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/How-Choose-Bridesman-Bridesmaid-Many-Oxi-Photography-604x403.jpg 604w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/How-Choose-Bridesman-Bridesmaid-Many-Oxi-Photography-60x40.jpg 60w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/How-Choose-Bridesman-Bridesmaid-Many-Oxi-Photography-467x312.jpg 467w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 750px) 100vw, 750px\" \/> Photo: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.oxiphotography.co.uk\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Oxi Photography<\/a> via <a href=\"https:\/\/wedissimo.com\/blog\/romantic-stylish-relaxed-wedding-by-the-sea\/\">Wedding By The Sea<\/a><\/p>\n<h3>Is it OK to have an odd number of bridesmaids and groomsmen?<\/h3>\n<p>Absolutely. There is no need to even things up on both sides of your wedding party. Simply choose the people you want by your side and don&#8217;t fret about the symmetry.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-318120\" src=\"https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/How-Choose-Bridesmaids-Many-Thyme-Lane-Photography-59.jpg\" alt=\"How Choose Bridesmaids Many Thyme Lane Photography\" width=\"1000\" height=\"667\" srcset=\"https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/How-Choose-Bridesmaids-Many-Thyme-Lane-Photography-59.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/How-Choose-Bridesmaids-Many-Thyme-Lane-Photography-59-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/How-Choose-Bridesmaids-Many-Thyme-Lane-Photography-59-720x480.jpg 720w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/How-Choose-Bridesmaids-Many-Thyme-Lane-Photography-59-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/How-Choose-Bridesmaids-Many-Thyme-Lane-Photography-59-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/How-Choose-Bridesmaids-Many-Thyme-Lane-Photography-59-604x403.jpg 604w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/How-Choose-Bridesmaids-Many-Thyme-Lane-Photography-59-60x40.jpg 60w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/How-Choose-Bridesmaids-Many-Thyme-Lane-Photography-59-467x312.jpg 467w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/> Photo: <a href=\"https:\/\/thymelanephotography.co.uk\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"> Thyme Lane Photography<\/a> via <a href=\"https:\/\/wedissimo.com\/blog\/barn-norfolk-wedding\/\">Barn Norfolk Wedding<\/a><\/p>\n<div class=\"infoBox infoBox--tick theme--green\"><p class=\"h2\"><\/p><\/p>\n<p>So there we have it, all you need to know before you choose how many bridesmaids to have. Now you have the lowdown to make your decision.<\/p>\n<p>Happy bridesmaid proposing!<\/p>\n<p><br\/><\/div>\n<h4>Further Reading<\/h4>\n<ul>\n<li><a href=\"https:\/\/wedissimo.com\/blog\/who-pays-bridesmaid-dresses\/\">Who pays for bridesmaid dresses?<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a title=\"17 Top Places To Buy Bridesmaid Dresses Online in the UK\" href=\"https:\/\/wedissimo.com\/blog\/bridesmaid-dresses-online-uk\/\">Top Places To Buy Bridesmaid Dresses Online<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a title=\"40 Beautiful Bridesmaid Hairstyles \u2013 The Prettiest Ideas\" href=\"https:\/\/wedissimo.com\/blog\/bridesmaid-hairstyles\/\">Bridesmaid Hairstyles Ideas<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a title=\"Bridesmaid Duties List For Thoughtful Maids &amp; Couples\" href=\"https:\/\/wedissimo.com\/blog\/bridesmaid-duties\/\">Bridesmaid Duties List<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Unsure how many bridesmaids to have at your wedding? 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