{"id":318247,"date":"2022-05-31T07:00:36","date_gmt":"2022-05-31T06:00:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/whimsicalwonderlandweddings.com\/?p=318247"},"modified":"2023-09-04T11:55:54","modified_gmt":"2023-09-04T10:55:54","slug":"who-pays-bridesmaid-dresses","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/wedissimo.com\/blog\/who-pays-bridesmaid-dresses\/","title":{"rendered":"Who Pays For Bridesmaid Dresses? Find Out The Real Answer"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Whether you are a bride, bridesmaid, groom or bridesman, you&#8217;re wondering who foots the bill for the bridesmaid\/bridesman outfits.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s a tricky debate and a decision that comes down to several considerations. But I am here to debunk the question of <strong>who pays for bridesmaid dresses in the UK<\/strong>.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-318252\" src=\"https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/Pays-Bridesmaids-Marianne-Chua-Photography-38.jpg\" alt=\"Who Pays Bridesmaids Marianne Chua Photography\" width=\"1000\" height=\"667\" srcset=\"https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/Pays-Bridesmaids-Marianne-Chua-Photography-38.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/Pays-Bridesmaids-Marianne-Chua-Photography-38-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/Pays-Bridesmaids-Marianne-Chua-Photography-38-720x480.jpg 720w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/Pays-Bridesmaids-Marianne-Chua-Photography-38-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/Pays-Bridesmaids-Marianne-Chua-Photography-38-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/Pays-Bridesmaids-Marianne-Chua-Photography-38-604x403.jpg 604w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/Pays-Bridesmaids-Marianne-Chua-Photography-38-60x40.jpg 60w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/Pays-Bridesmaids-Marianne-Chua-Photography-38-467x312.jpg 467w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/> Photo: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.mariannechua.com\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Marianne Chua Photography<\/a> via <a href=\"https:\/\/wedissimo.com\/blog\/chainstore-wedding\/\">Chainstore Wedding<\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2>Who pays for bridesmaid dresses in the UK?<\/h2>\n<p>Quite simply, general etiquette in the UK is that the couple getting hitched, pays for the wedding outfits for the wedding party; bridesmaids, bridesmen, flower girls, page boys, groomsmen and groomswomen.<\/p>\n<p>Generally speaking, if you have a certain outfit in mind, a particular brand or colour scheme\/style, you should pay for the outfit. If you&#8217;ve asked your bridesmaid\/bridesman to be a part of your day, you should really expect to pay for their role in your wedding.<\/p>\n<p>However, there are some instances where a wedding party may be happy to contribute. It comes down to individual relationships, budget and some savvy alternative ideas.<\/p>\n<p>It could be thought that if the bridesmaid\/bridesman was to be a guest, they&#8217;d buy their own outfit. However, the choice is theirs as a guest, to buy new or re-wear something, how much to spend and what they choose to don.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-318258 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/Who-Pays-Bridesmaid-Dresses-Emma-Lawson-Photography62-720x1080.jpg\" alt=\"Who Pays Bridesmaid Dresses Emma Lawson Photography\" width=\"720\" height=\"1080\" srcset=\"https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/Who-Pays-Bridesmaid-Dresses-Emma-Lawson-Photography62-720x1080.jpg 720w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/Who-Pays-Bridesmaid-Dresses-Emma-Lawson-Photography62-300x450.jpg 300w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/Who-Pays-Bridesmaid-Dresses-Emma-Lawson-Photography62-150x225.jpg 150w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/Who-Pays-Bridesmaid-Dresses-Emma-Lawson-Photography62-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/Who-Pays-Bridesmaid-Dresses-Emma-Lawson-Photography62-604x906.jpg 604w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/Who-Pays-Bridesmaid-Dresses-Emma-Lawson-Photography62-60x90.jpg 60w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/Who-Pays-Bridesmaid-Dresses-Emma-Lawson-Photography62.jpg 1000w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 720px) 100vw, 720px\" \/> Photo: <a href=\"https:\/\/emmalawsonphotography.com\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"> Emma Lawson<\/a> via <a href=\"https:\/\/wedissimo.com\/blog\/fife-wedding\/\">Fife Wedding<\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2>Bridesmaid Costs &#8211; FAQ Solved<\/h2>\n<h3>Can bridesmaids pay for dresses?<\/h3>\n<p>Bridesmaids or bridesmen can absolutely pay for their dresses\/outfits if they choose to do so. If you are set on your wedding party paying, you need to have an honest conversation with them.<\/p>\n<p>Depending on your relationship and your situation, it may or may not go down well. Bear this in mind when going into this conversation and be open-minded.<\/p>\n<p>The last thing you want to do is wreck your relationships because of your wedding and squabbles about finances.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-318260\" src=\"https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/Who-Pays-Bridesmaid-Dresses-Aurora-Grey-Photography-37.jpg\" alt=\"Who Pays Bridesmaid Dresses Aurora Grey Photography\" width=\"1000\" height=\"667\" srcset=\"https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/Who-Pays-Bridesmaid-Dresses-Aurora-Grey-Photography-37.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/Who-Pays-Bridesmaid-Dresses-Aurora-Grey-Photography-37-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/Who-Pays-Bridesmaid-Dresses-Aurora-Grey-Photography-37-720x480.jpg 720w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/Who-Pays-Bridesmaid-Dresses-Aurora-Grey-Photography-37-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/Who-Pays-Bridesmaid-Dresses-Aurora-Grey-Photography-37-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/Who-Pays-Bridesmaid-Dresses-Aurora-Grey-Photography-37-604x403.jpg 604w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/Who-Pays-Bridesmaid-Dresses-Aurora-Grey-Photography-37-60x40.jpg 60w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/Who-Pays-Bridesmaid-Dresses-Aurora-Grey-Photography-37-467x312.jpg 467w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/> Photo: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.auroragrey.co.uk\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Aurora Grey Photography<\/a> via <a href=\"https:\/\/wedissimo.com\/blog\/norfolk-barn-wedding\/\">Norfolk Barn Wedding<\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3>How do we ask bridesmaids to pay for their dresses?<\/h3>\n<p>Here are some ways to ask your bridesmaids\/bridesmen politely:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><em>&#8220;It&#8217;s time to start thinking about your outfits. What do you guys think about how we go about it? Would you like us to buy your dresses or would you like to contribute towards or pay for them. Completly open either way, we don&#8217;t mind.&#8221;<\/em><\/li>\n<li><em>&#8220;I&#8217;d love to ask you to be our bridesmaid\/bridesman, but due to budget constraints, I&#8217;m not sure we can afford the outfit cost. Would you like to wear something you already own or find something inexpensive you&#8217;d be happy to buy for your wedding outfit? Of course, please feel free to say no if you feel it&#8217;s cheeky, but we thought it was worth asking what you think.&#8221;<\/em><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-318259\" src=\"https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/Who-Pays-Bridesmaids-Dress-Michelle-Huggleston-Photography-17.jpg\" alt=\"Who Pays Bridesmaids Dress Michelle Huggleston Photography\" width=\"1000\" height=\"667\" srcset=\"https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/Who-Pays-Bridesmaids-Dress-Michelle-Huggleston-Photography-17.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/Who-Pays-Bridesmaids-Dress-Michelle-Huggleston-Photography-17-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/Who-Pays-Bridesmaids-Dress-Michelle-Huggleston-Photography-17-720x480.jpg 720w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/Who-Pays-Bridesmaids-Dress-Michelle-Huggleston-Photography-17-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/Who-Pays-Bridesmaids-Dress-Michelle-Huggleston-Photography-17-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/Who-Pays-Bridesmaids-Dress-Michelle-Huggleston-Photography-17-604x403.jpg 604w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/Who-Pays-Bridesmaids-Dress-Michelle-Huggleston-Photography-17-60x40.jpg 60w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/Who-Pays-Bridesmaids-Dress-Michelle-Huggleston-Photography-17-467x312.jpg 467w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/> Photo: <a href=\"https:\/\/www.michellehuggleston.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Michelle Huggleston<\/a> via <a href=\"https:\/\/wedissimo.com\/blog\/celtic-manor-resort-wedding\/\">Celtic Manor Resort Wedding<\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3>Will we annoy our family\/friends by asking them to buy their outfits?<\/h3>\n<p>Remember if you are splashing out, it may not come across well if you then scrimp on your wedding party outfits and ask them to pay. For example, if you&#8217;re jetting off on a tropical luxe honeymoon or have a massively opulent day, but ask for contributions loved ones may feel upset.<\/p>\n<p>However, if you are genuinely on a small budget and are being thrifty, your loved ones may be more than happy to help you out.<\/p>\n<p>It really comes down to being authentic, honest and open. But also being able to understand if your wedding party aren&#8217;t on board with footing the bill.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-318262 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/Who-Pays-Bridesmaids-Kerry-Ann-Duffy-Photography-40-720x1080.jpg\" alt=\"Who Pays Bridesmaids Kerry Ann Duffy Photography\" width=\"720\" height=\"1080\" srcset=\"https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/Who-Pays-Bridesmaids-Kerry-Ann-Duffy-Photography-40-720x1080.jpg 720w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/Who-Pays-Bridesmaids-Kerry-Ann-Duffy-Photography-40-300x450.jpg 300w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/Who-Pays-Bridesmaids-Kerry-Ann-Duffy-Photography-40-150x225.jpg 150w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/Who-Pays-Bridesmaids-Kerry-Ann-Duffy-Photography-40-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/Who-Pays-Bridesmaids-Kerry-Ann-Duffy-Photography-40-604x906.jpg 604w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/Who-Pays-Bridesmaids-Kerry-Ann-Duffy-Photography-40-60x90.jpg 60w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/Who-Pays-Bridesmaids-Kerry-Ann-Duffy-Photography-40.jpg 1000w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 720px) 100vw, 720px\" \/> Photo: <a href=\"https:\/\/kerryannduffy.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Kerry Ann Duffy Photography<\/a> via <a href=\"https:\/\/wedissimo.com\/blog\/high-house-wedding\/\">High House Wedding<\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2>What should you pay for as a bridesmaid?<\/h2>\n<p>It can be quite a murky area when it comes to who pays for what. Frankly, there are no rules so anything does go, but you need to be aware of taking your wedding party&#8217;s feelings into account.<\/p>\n<p>Below is a guide, but of course, if the couple is happy to pay for everything, that&#8217;s absolutely fine to do so.<\/p>\n<h3>\u2728 Bridesmaids\/Bridesmen <em>Usually<\/em> Pay For<\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li>Hen\/stag party attendance each<\/li>\n<li>Accommodation if they wish to stay overnight at your venue before\/after<\/li>\n<li>Travel to the wedding venue preparations in the morning<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3>\u26a1\ufe0f The Couple <em>Usually<\/em> Pay For<\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li>Outfits<\/li>\n<li>Hotel room accommodation for getting ready and the evening before if staying in the same room as the bride\/groom<\/li>\n<li>Wedding flowers<\/li>\n<li>Transport on the day to the ceremony\/reception (unless you ask them to drive themselves)<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3>\ud83d\udc95 Bridesmaids\/Bridesmen <em>Sometimes<\/em> Pay For<\/h3>\n<ul>\n<li>Professional hairstyling<\/li>\n<li>Professional makeup application<\/li>\n<li>By pre-arrangement; outfits and accessories<\/li>\n<li>Wedding gift for the couple if they choose to do so<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>How Much Do Bridesmaid Dresses Cost?<\/h2>\n<p>Bridesmaid cost varies massively but the below chart should give an indication of how much each bridesmaid\/bridesman could set you back in the UK.<\/p>\n\n<table id=\"tablepress-8\" class=\"tablepress tablepress-id-8\">\n<thead>\n<tr class=\"row-1\">\n\t<th class=\"column-1\">Bridesmaid Item<\/th><th class=\"column-2\">Minimum Spend Each<\/th><th class=\"column-3\">Could Spend Each<\/th>\n<\/tr>\n<\/thead>\n<tbody class=\"row-striping row-hover\">\n<tr class=\"row-2\">\n\t<td class=\"column-1\">Outfit<\/td><td class=\"column-2\">\u00a330<\/td><td class=\"column-3\">\u00a3120+<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr class=\"row-3\">\n\t<td class=\"column-1\">Shoes<\/td><td class=\"column-2\">\u00a325<\/td><td class=\"column-3\">\u00a360+<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr class=\"row-4\">\n\t<td class=\"column-1\">Jewellery<\/td><td class=\"column-2\">\u00a315<\/td><td class=\"column-3\">\u00a3150+<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr class=\"row-5\">\n\t<td class=\"column-1\">Hair Accessory<\/td><td class=\"column-2\">\u00a320<\/td><td class=\"column-3\">\u00a340+<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr class=\"row-6\">\n\t<td class=\"column-1\">Hair Stylist<\/td><td class=\"column-2\">\u00a340<\/td><td class=\"column-3\">\u00a370+<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr class=\"row-7\">\n\t<td class=\"column-1\">Make Up Artist<\/td><td class=\"column-2\">\u00a340<\/td><td class=\"column-3\">\u00a3100+<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr class=\"row-8\">\n\t<td class=\"column-1\">Robe\/PJs<\/td><td class=\"column-2\">\u00a320<\/td><td class=\"column-3\">\u00a360+<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr class=\"row-9\">\n\t<td class=\"column-1\">Gift<\/td><td class=\"column-2\">\u00a320<\/td><td class=\"column-3\">\u00a360+<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<tr class=\"row-10\">\n\t<td class=\"column-1\">Bouquet<\/td><td class=\"column-2\">\u00a340<\/td><td class=\"column-3\">\u00a3100+<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<tfoot>\n<tr class=\"row-11\">\n\t<th class=\"column-1\">Total<\/th><th class=\"column-2\">\u00a3460<\/th><th class=\"column-3\">\u00a3760+<\/th>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tfoot>\n<\/table>\n\n<p>It goes without saying that you don&#8217;t have to spend the above to have a wedding party. But hopefully seeing these costs will also help you <a href=\"https:\/\/wedissimo.com\/blog\/how-many-bridesmaids-choose\/\">choose how many bridesmaids<\/a> to have. There are many ways to save money and keep to a tight budget.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-318257\" src=\"https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/Who-Pays-Bridesmaid-Dresses-Alisa-Nicholle-Co-30.jpg\" alt=\"Who Pays Bridesmaid Dresses Alisa Nicholle Co\" width=\"1000\" height=\"666\" srcset=\"https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/Who-Pays-Bridesmaid-Dresses-Alisa-Nicholle-Co-30.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/Who-Pays-Bridesmaid-Dresses-Alisa-Nicholle-Co-30-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/Who-Pays-Bridesmaid-Dresses-Alisa-Nicholle-Co-30-720x480.jpg 720w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/Who-Pays-Bridesmaid-Dresses-Alisa-Nicholle-Co-30-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/Who-Pays-Bridesmaid-Dresses-Alisa-Nicholle-Co-30-768x511.jpg 768w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/Who-Pays-Bridesmaid-Dresses-Alisa-Nicholle-Co-30-604x402.jpg 604w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/Who-Pays-Bridesmaid-Dresses-Alisa-Nicholle-Co-30-60x40.jpg 60w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/Who-Pays-Bridesmaid-Dresses-Alisa-Nicholle-Co-30-467x312.jpg 467w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/> Photo: <a href=\"https:\/\/alisanicholle.co\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Alisa Nicholle Co<\/a> via <a href=\"https:\/\/wedissimo.com\/blog\/modern-city-wedding-ideas\/\">Modern City Wedding Ideas<\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2>How To Save Money On Bridesmaids<\/h2>\n<p>Whether you are a bridesmaid\/bridesman or a bride\/groom, then these top <a title=\"Cost-Saving Budget Wedding Ideas That Won\u2019t Look Cheap\" href=\"https:\/\/wedissimo.com\/blog\/cheap-budget-weddings-www-wedding-planning-tools\/\">wedding budget tips<\/a> could help you stretch your wedding budget.<\/p>\n<h3>\ud83d\udc57 Outfits<\/h3>\n<p>There are several ways to save big on bridesmaid\/bridesman outfits:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Ask your wedding party to wear something they already own in a certain colour.<\/li>\n<li>Find pre-loved bridesmaid dresses\/bridesman outfits &#8211; eBay and Facebook Marketplace are especially great for finding second-hand wedding attire.<\/li>\n<li>Find <a href=\"https:\/\/wedissimo.com\/blog\/bridesmaid-dresses-online-uk\/\">bridesmaid dresses online<\/a> or on the high street.<\/li>\n<li>Go outfit shopping in the sales and use online discount codes.<\/li>\n<li>Try mismatched outfits, being flexible gives more options for sale and discounted dresses.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone wp-image-318264 size-large\" src=\"https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/Who-Pays-Bridesmaids-Dresses-LyraMoth-Photography-33-720x1080.jpg\" alt=\"Who Pays Bridesmaids Dresses LyraMoth Photography\" width=\"720\" height=\"1080\" srcset=\"https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/Who-Pays-Bridesmaids-Dresses-LyraMoth-Photography-33-720x1080.jpg 720w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/Who-Pays-Bridesmaids-Dresses-LyraMoth-Photography-33-300x450.jpg 300w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/Who-Pays-Bridesmaids-Dresses-LyraMoth-Photography-33-150x225.jpg 150w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/Who-Pays-Bridesmaids-Dresses-LyraMoth-Photography-33-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/Who-Pays-Bridesmaids-Dresses-LyraMoth-Photography-33-604x906.jpg 604w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/Who-Pays-Bridesmaids-Dresses-LyraMoth-Photography-33-60x90.jpg 60w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/Who-Pays-Bridesmaids-Dresses-LyraMoth-Photography-33.jpg 1000w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 720px) 100vw, 720px\" \/> Photo: <a href=\"https:\/\/lyraandmoth.co.uk\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Lyra and Moth<\/a> via <a href=\"https:\/\/wedissimo.com\/blog\/abbey-house-gardens-wedding\/\">Abbey House Gardens Wedding<\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3>\ud83c\udf81 Accessories &amp; Gifts<\/h3>\n<p>Let&#8217;s see how you can save on bridesmaid\/bridesman accessories:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Ask your wedding party to wear accessories in a theme\/colour they already own.<\/li>\n<li>Look for inexpensive accessories on the high street and online.<\/li>\n<li>Gift accessories as your bridesmaid\/bridesman present to say thank you in style.<\/li>\n<li>A small thoughtful homemade <a title=\"23 Bridesmaid Gift Ideas To Say Thank You In Style\" href=\"https:\/\/wedissimo.com\/blog\/bridesmaid-gift-present-ideas-thank-you\/\">bridesmaid gift<\/a> or meaningful handwritten note could go further than an inexpensive gift without much thought behind it.<\/li>\n<li>Ditch accessories that you don&#8217;t actually need, ask yourself are these necessary?<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h3>\ud83d\udc84 Hair Makeup &amp; Flowers<\/h3>\n<p>What about making savings on beauty and flowers? Try these:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Swap bouquets for wrist corsages, homemade paper bouquets or foraged foliage.<\/li>\n<li>Ask a handy friend who is naturally great at hair\/makeup to help &#8211; you know the one who is always great when prepping for a night out!<\/li>\n<li>Go DIY, ask maids to do their own hair\/makeup or let them know the cost of your pro stylist and if they&#8217;d like to book them for the day too.<\/li>\n<li>Head to makeup counters or a pro-MUA for makeup lessons before the day. A fun trip pre-wedding but also super helpful.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-318256\" src=\"https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/Bridesmaids-Bridesman-Who-Pays-Jules-Barron-Photography-33.jpg\" alt=\"Bridesmaids Bridesman Who Pays Jules Barron Photography\" width=\"1000\" height=\"667\" srcset=\"https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/Bridesmaids-Bridesman-Who-Pays-Jules-Barron-Photography-33.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/Bridesmaids-Bridesman-Who-Pays-Jules-Barron-Photography-33-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/Bridesmaids-Bridesman-Who-Pays-Jules-Barron-Photography-33-720x480.jpg 720w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/Bridesmaids-Bridesman-Who-Pays-Jules-Barron-Photography-33-150x100.jpg 150w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/Bridesmaids-Bridesman-Who-Pays-Jules-Barron-Photography-33-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/Bridesmaids-Bridesman-Who-Pays-Jules-Barron-Photography-33-604x403.jpg 604w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/Bridesmaids-Bridesman-Who-Pays-Jules-Barron-Photography-33-60x40.jpg 60w, https:\/\/whimsical-cdn.wedissimo.com\/2022\/05\/Bridesmaids-Bridesman-Who-Pays-Jules-Barron-Photography-33-467x312.jpg 467w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/> Photo: <a href=\"https:\/\/julesbarron.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Jules Barron<\/a> via <a href=\"https:\/\/wedissimo.com\/blog\/mickleton-hills-farm-wedding\/\">Mickleton Hills Farm Wedding<\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<div class=\"infoBox infoBox--tick theme--blue\"><p class=\"h2\"><\/p><\/p>\n<p>All in all, when it comes to weddings there really is no set way to go about things. All you can do is go with what feels right to you.<\/p>\n<p>If you are a bride\/groom just be cautious about how you approach this topic and be sure to be clear from the outset.<\/p>\n<p>Conflicts more often than not arise when expectations are not aligned and plans change unexpectedly. So be true to yourself and go with your gut.<\/p>\n<p><br\/><\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h4>Further Reading<\/h4>\n<ul>\n<li><a title=\"How Much Does A Wedding Cost In The UK? With 2021 Average\" href=\"https:\/\/wedissimo.com\/blog\/wedding-cost-average-uk\/\">How Much Does A Wedding Cost In The UK?<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a title=\"Real Groom Suit Ideas \u2013 2022 Wedding Suit Inspiration\" href=\"https:\/\/wedissimo.com\/blog\/groom-suit-ideas\/\">Real Groom Suit Ideas<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a title=\"Wedding Hairstyles \u2013 36 Ideas For Your Bridal Look\" href=\"https:\/\/wedissimo.com\/blog\/wedding-hairstyles-ideas\/\">Wedding Hairstyle Ideas<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a title=\"40 Beautiful Bridesmaid Hairstyles \u2013 The Prettiest Ideas\" href=\"https:\/\/wedissimo.com\/blog\/bridesmaid-hairstyles\/\">40 Bridesmaid Hairstyles<\/a><\/li>\n<li><a title=\"Bridesmaid Duties List For Thoughtful Maids &amp; Couples\" href=\"https:\/\/wedissimo.com\/blog\/bridesmaid-duties\/\">Bridesmaid Duties List<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>If you\u2019re wondering who foots the bill for the bridesmaid\/bridesman outfits. 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